I’m really excited every time I always take Shantal to the mall! Ang daming natutuwa sakanya. Well, I’m an avid fan of my daughter. 100% PROUD NANAY.
What I love her the most is when I always heard her say
mommy Koh to, LOVE KO TO
then she will hug me tight!
I feel the butterfly in my stomach every time she does that. I HUG HER BACK, then I will respond Iloveyou too baby.
You know what? One thing for sure, I learned from one of Bro. Bo. Book, He said always hug your child and say to them you love them because she will love you more in return. When you go camping and shout anywhere, in the forest , or on a cliff, We usually hear the echo of our voice. Right?
So lets says for instance you tell your child to shout IHATEYOU! You will hear IHATEYOU many times! Do you want your child say IHATEYOU? HATRED will grow on her heart and the return is TRIPLE! Explain it to them. What you give is what you receive. Tell your child, don’t say it. Don’t hate people because they will hate you too. Do you remember the old testament said ” LOVE YOUR ENEMY”
So what more if you shout I HATE YOU? Does it make a change? The “I HATE YOU” will echo many times. Right?
Why not let our kid shout ILOVEYOU! ILOVEYOU! wow! Perhaps, every day is a valentine’s day. The more you LOVE, the more LOVE will give back. ( Hindi ko sinabi na marami ka dapat mahalin na boyfriend or girlfriend huh! Ibang usapan na yun.)
Always show your child you love them. Always Hug them. Why? Because A child will grow with a positive outlook when she feel love and hug. I cuddle with my daughter always, even when she did bad and I get angry with her.
She will cry, but after that I always heard these words to her
MOMMY, Hindi ka Dalet? ( Dalet means “GALIT” or angry)
And then ohhwww! Sorry baby, MOM is not mad. I just don’t like what you did because it’s bad. Don’t do it again, okay?
Then Shantal’s will say
that’s how we finish our talk. After that she almost forgets everything. Parang walang nangyari na tampuhan at samaan ng loob ganun!
So to all Mommies and Daddies!
Always show your kid feels the love. I assure you, they will love you even more in return.